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SocietyJuly 20, 2023

A 15-year-old finds out what teens really think about vaping

a big green vape among school lockers
Image: Archi Banal

Teenagers are at the centre of the conversation about vaping, but aren’t often heard from directly. Caspar Levack, a year 11 high schooler in Wellington, gets it from the horse’s mouth.

Emma, 15, has been vaping for more than a year now. She tries hard to do well in school, isn’t rebellious, gets Excellence grades on most NCEA assignments and studies a few hours a day. Her favourite class is Māori and she’s passionate about continuing with the language. “I’m worried that I might be a nerd,” she jokes. “My friends were joking about carbon ion bonds recently, and I’m worried that I got it.” 

Emma first vaped after a friend offered her a puff. She was in a “dark place” at the time, and vaping made her feel a little bit relaxed. Her favourite flavour is watermelon ice. She originally didn’t consider herself addicted but now does, currently vaping multiple times a day. “I tried to throw out all my vapes,” she tells me, “but it didn’t really work out.” She adds that her friends would offer her theirs, and it was difficult to say no. She felt uneasy about using resources to help her stop as she feels really embarrassed about the habit. She isn’t concerned for her health at the moment, but says she’s worried about how it would be affected in the future. 

Leo, 15, is more rebellious. He often doesn’t show up to classes and doesn’t really care about his grades. He’s more interested in having a good time and taking it easy. His favourite flavour is blue raspberry. He shares a similar story to Emma: “all my friends were [vaping] when I started.” He has been vaping on and off for about two years, considers himself addicted, and vapes many times a day. He has tried to quit seven times – even trying nicotine tablets to reduce cravings – but still struggles with his habit.  “I think I’d like to quit in the future,” he says, “maybe when I turn 18.” He isn’t aware of any health risks posed by vapes. 

I also speak to Ava, 16, who wants to do well at school and gets along well with her teachers but doesn’t like to put huge amounts of effort into her work. She doesn’t consider herself addicted but is nevertheless vaping daily. She started vaping because her friends were doing it and she felt it was all in good fun. When I ask if she thinks it will to have any effect on her health, she responds, “oh, absolutely”.

We are well past the point of this being a fad. A 2021 survey from the Asthma and Respiratory Foundation New Zealand (ARFNZ) found that 26 percent of high school students surveyed had vaped in the past week, and 75 percent of those vaping did it daily or several times a day. As a high school student myself, I often see kids vape and hear them talk about it persistently, despite being banned at my school and illegal on school grounds. Teachers have a hard time enforcing this rule because, at my school, students are allowed to leave the school grounds. Even within the school gates there are multiple locations, like behind the main hall, where groups of vapers awkwardly huddle next to a dumpster with clouds of vapour emanating from them. 

As long as you’re about their age, vaping students will be honest about it if you ask. The ARFNZ survey seems accurate for my school. So, what are these teenagers’ thoughts and experiences when it comes to vaping?

As I’ve mentioned, there are varying levels of health concerns among the vapers I interview; some even think it’s harmless. In fact vapes often contain many of the same harmful chemicals found in traditional cigarettes, albeit in smaller doses. Formaldehyde, acetaldehyde, acrolein and acetone have all been found in vapes, and at high enough concentrations, can cause cardiovascular disease and pulmonary disease. Because vapes and e-cigarettes have only been on the market for a few years, we don’t have a full understanding of the long-term health risks associated with them.

Almost everyone I speak to agrees the laws around vapes make them too accessible to minors. Emma says it’s ridiculous that people her age can buy vapes in stores, where they’re unlikely to be asked for ID, and Leo suggests a system for supporting addicted teens needs to be set up. One student I talk to sheepishly confides that while trying to quit vaping, they smoked a traditional cigarette to deal with their nicotine cravings.

Australia recently passed sweeping restrictions on vapes to make them more inaccessible to teens, and Aotearoa seems to be following suit. Last month, minister of health Ayesha Verrall announced changes to our vaping laws, including requiring flavour names to be generic, prohibiting new vape shops from opening within 300 metres of a school or marae, and banning disposable vapes. However, this reform is not as radical as Australia’s new policy and multiple groups, including ARFNZ and the Royal New Zealand College of General Practitioners, are suggesting that more drastic measures are needed. 

The young people I speak to feel New Zealand’s law change won’t be comprehensive enough to stop teens from vaping. Emma tells me banning disposable vapes could become problematic, as buying a $50 reusable vape is more of a commitment than a cheap disposable option people trying to quit won’t want to ditch their expensive vapes. “This is a step in the right direction,” she adds, “but I’m unsure whether it’s the correct step.” My interviewees agree making flavour names more generic makes sense, although Emma says, “that’s so sad, I love my fun flavour names!” 

Better law changes, according to the teenagers I speak to, would require IDs for purchase or suppress the number of stores selling vapes. There’s a sense, too, that most anti-vape campaigns are designed by adults and shame or belittle vaping, which makes young people feel bad about themselves, not vaping. A campaign designed by young people that doesn’t embarrass or shame people could be very effective, Emma adds. 

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SocietyJuly 20, 2023

Help Me Hera: My partner won’t propose and I’m becoming obsessed by it

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I feel like a bad feminist for caring so much about my wedding. But I care so much about my wedding. 

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Dearest Hera,

I’ve been dating my partner for five years now and feel like we’re at the wedding bells stage of life (31 and 29). Despite having lots of chats about us both wanting to get married and having a big party with all our friends and family, he doesn’t seem anywhere near proposing. I would say that there’s no rush, but my grandparents are getting old and I would love to have them there. How do I stop obsessing over potential wedding plans and looking at the perfect ring when I’ve had no indication that it’s coming anytime soon?

Love,

The staunch feminist who knows weddings are problematic but still wants her white dress moment. 

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Dear Staunch,

Don’t you hate it when the bell tolls, but it isn’t for thee? Really makes you reconsider the whole proposition that no man is an island :(

Weddings aren’t inherently problematic, unless you make yours Gone with the Wind themed and hold it at a former slave plantation. You could argue the institution of marriage is problematic, but so is almost everything that can be preceded by the words “institution of”. That doesn’t mean we should throw the cake out with the cake water. Beyond funerals and interventions, there are precious few opportunities in this life to gather everyone you love in one room and make them cry.

The idea of having a wedding has always filled me with dread, because a wedding is basically just an emotionally-jacked party, and I can’t throw a party to save my life. I love my friends, but I do not want to devise many small and picturesque salads for them to eat. But there’s nothing I love more than going to other people’s weddings. What’s better than drinking free wine and watching the family and friends of people you love give elaborate and humiliating speeches about them? 

Need. Need. Need. Need. Need.

Anyway, you obviously don’t need to be convinced on the subject. In fact, I feel like you already know the most practical solution to your own problem, it’s just perhaps not the most emotionally satisfying one. 

In a perfect world, you would get exactly what you want, without specifically having to ask, preferably while on a moonlit helicopter ride, or on the edge of a dormant volcano. But it sounds like you’ve been patiently waiting, and nothing has happened.

I’m not surprised you don’t want to ask for a proposal. I imagine being a woman and actively wanting a wedding comes with a whole lot of monogrammed, genuine-leather baggage, and it’s hard to press your partner on the subject of a matrimonial timeline without sounding like you’ve come down with tampon derangement syndrome. It’s like asking for someone to throw you a surprise birthday party, only more embarrassing, because it’s so tied up with traditional fantasies of gender. 

You could start throwing out heavy-handed hints, like throwing every bouquet of flowers you see immediately over your shoulder, or telling your partner you’re thinking of cutting off the fourth finger on your left hand soon, unless he can think of any good reason you shouldn’t. But throwing out hints is a recipe for resentment, because there’s so much room for misunderstanding.

You say you are a staunch feminist, which is obviously not incompatible with getting married. But if the aspirational feminist picture books of the 90s taught us anything, it’s that sometimes in life you have to ask for what you want, even if what you want is to get what you want without having to ask. 

It’s not like you haven’t already laid the groundwork. You both seem to be on the same page about marriage, and it sounds like you’ve already had lots of frank conversations on the subject, which is eminently sensible. But if you’re getting stressed about the relentless passage of time, it’s probably worth revisiting the subject and trying to decide on a more concrete timeline. That doesn’t mean setting a date. You could, for instance, agree to get engaged sometime within the next two years. That’s long enough for the proposal to still come as a surprise. But knowing it’s on the horizon will hopefully relieve your anxiety and let you start idly dreaming of salmon blinis without having to worry about the escalating threat of your grandparent’s mortality.

Asking for what you want doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll get it. This isn’t Rhonda Byrne’s The Secret. It’s possible your boyfriend has changed his mind on the subject, or has an objection to the premise you didn’t know about. But it’s the only strategy I can think of that isn’t going to lead to resentment. You could always cut out the middleman and propose to your boyfriend yourself, but I understand the “proposal” aspect is an important part of the whole ceremony and ritual, like leaving carrots out for Santa’s reindeer. Still, it’s something to consider!

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I know sitting down and having a serious conversation about timelines is not the most romantic thing in the world, although you could light a couple of candles and put on Stevie Wonder. But the vast majority of wedding planning isn’t romantic anyway. It’s a feat of administrative excellence, full of spreadsheets and budgets and seating arrangement charts. It’s all ultimately in service to the main event, which is gathering everyone you both love in the same room, and forcing them to dance. 

Have the conversation soon, before your wedding bells start turning into wedding klaxons. 

And save me a slice of cake!

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