Gem Wilder is a writer, mother, DJ, dancer, and arts lover. She grew up in Lower Hutt in the 80s & 90s, where not much had changed since the infamous Mazengarb Report days.
Sometimes people (men) are a bit simple. They need help to talk to other people in a way that isn't shitty and awful. Gem Wilder has provided this easy guide to not being a urine-soaked bag of burnt popcorn.