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SocietyFebruary 14, 2025

My 50 first dates in Wellington, ranked and reviewed

a collage of polaroid photos showing various locations around Wellington
Have you suffered through an awkward date at any of these locations?

The capital city may be small but there are plenty of places to find love (or spend a painful two hours).

Wellington has had a hard time lately. By all accounts, we’re firmly in a recession, and that applies to romance too. Our dating pool has been ravaged by brain drain, and our favourite haunts have had to close their doors. It’s hard enough scoring a first date in the first place, between the small talk, scheduling and swiping on their flatmates. Now we have to work a whole lot harder to find a destination that makes up for our city’s various, incestuous flaws.

In the words of Johnny Lee, I have spent the past five years looking for love in all the wrong places. To save you the same problem, here are my 50 first dates in the capital, ranked not by person but by destination, environ, or venue. 

50. My house

Sounds hot, but not when your room is riddled with bed bugs. The original plan was actually to drive my date four hours to a festival, but we had to make a pit-stop while I called for pest control. There are other risks involved with bringing a stranger to your house, of course, but this one is guaranteed to kill both an infestation and a mood. 

49. A Zoom meeting

Covid dating has an air of nostalgia, but Zooming each other must be worse than being alone.

48. Their house

For obvious reasons, I can’t specify this location. But I will be very specific in my disdain for being watched by a dog while you make out on the couch.

47. St Mary’s of the Angels Catholic Church

Hozier called it in 2013, but actually going to church is not a great date if you’re not a believer.

46. This AirBnB

Soulless, overpriced, and inherently fleeting. You could say that sums up Wellington, but you’d never get a date in this city again. 

45. The zoo

Technically this never came to fruition, but an honourable mention for the time someone asked me to take a day off work for a surprise trip to the zoo.

44. 1852 Pub and Kitchen

According to their website, “1852 aims to please everyone”. If you’re not here for gambling or for watching the rugby, please yourself by going elsewhere.

43. Brooklyn Turbine

Windswept, but honestly not that interesting. 

42. Golding’s Free Dive

“Like drinking inside a pinball machine”. No-one knows who said it, but they said it all, I say.

41. Hanging Ditch

Next to the Dive but comparatively peaceful. Somewhat spooked by the ominous name.

Three polaroids, one showing the road sign for the wind turbine, another showing the front of '1852 kitchen' with two signs, and the last a shot of a sunny Wellington Zoo entrance building
I’m not sure the 1800s is an era we should all still be nostalgic for.

40. Shed 22

This is the only bar I’ve found selling Scotland’s national lager. Good or shite? I’ll let you decide.

39. Beach Babylon

Less date, more family reunion. Join the throng of parents treating students to a bottomless brunch.

38. Somtum Thai

This not-so-hidden gem is another tasty option, but heed their warnings on the spice.

37. The Arborist

Rooftop bars are rarely required in this city, but The Arborist is there for all your Melbourne dreams.

36. Midnight Espresso

Late night dating doesn’t have to mean the nightclub, but it also doesn’t have to mean a giant piece of cake.

35. Preservatorium

The only thing being preserved in this café is your small talk – and the “strangely delicious” cabinet food.

34. The Botanist

One for people who like the idea of Lyall Bay, but not the seaside reality. Even the name suggests it would rather be elsewhere. 

33. Raglan Roast (Abel Smith Street)

Low stakes, and even lower seating. Great place for napping, if that’s your vision of love.

32. Bebemos

Always full of doctors. Someone diagnose the dearth of chemistry.

31. Garage Project

Intimate, and only marginally intimidating if you’re not a brewer or a bro.

Three polaroids: The first photo features a building with a black balcony, the second, and the third shows a fruit supply store with a pink sign reading 'Paekakakariki fruit supply'
If there’s one thing we love in this city, it’s a stool on a stoop.

30. Library Bar

If you like dressing up, this is the place to bring your beret. We both agreed our hats were better value than the drinks.

29. The tip shop

Being frugal can be fun, but it surely isn’t flirty. It’s hard to be attractive while you raid a bargain bin.

28. Freyberg sauna

Turn up the heat with a semi-clad sauna. On reflection, this is probably unfair for other customers, or for anyone with a preference for privacy.

27. Sprig and Fern (Thorndon)

Of all the Sprigs, this one’s my preference. It’s a stone’s throw from the city’s Botanic Gardens, lest you want actual ferns in which to stretch your legs.

26. Hillside Restaurant

Playful kai for curious people, but a bold choice in this economic climate. Do not offer to shout the bill.

25. Peoples Coffee (Newtown)

Peoples is my local, but convenience comes at a very real cost. Be prepared to bump into an unrequited lover, a friend, a colleague, or another, upcoming date. 

24. Paekākāriki

A day trip can be great if you’re daring. Finding love can be a marathon; your first date doesn’t have to be.

23. Beach Kiosk

Escape to the south coast for expansive views and impeccable brunches. You might broaden your horizons in more ways than one.

22. Mount Victoria

This is my favourite mountain for when tramping is a bit much.

21. Next Door

On a busy day, this place is impenetrable. That is still better than the time I had to inflict my first date on an otherwise empty bar. 

Three polaroids: one showing the white front of Maranui Cafe, the second showing four white stools in front of a cafe entrance, the last showing the Parrotdog sign on the top corner of a black building
Wellington on one of its blessed good days.

20. Parrotdog

There will be a steady stream of dogs, dads and DJs. I hate pets, and I can’t fathom the life of a parent, so I guess that leaves me hanging out for beers and decent beats.

19. Maranui

Rammed, albeit for good reason. Send an advance party or start your date in a hungry queue.

18. Crumpet

Come for the cocktails, stay for the incongruous, eponymous treats. 

17. Rogue and Vagabond

There could be music, there could be sunshine, and there will always be curly fries. 

16. The gym

Yes, I have been on a date to the gym with a stranger. And yes, you could say I deserve to be single, but remember how we all thought Challengers was sexy? Lifting weights is just like tennis for those of us who can’t keep our eyes on the ball. Ideally find a gym that only one – or neither of you – go to, so no-one has to change their membership if/when it doesn’t ‘work out’.

Three Polaroid photos: first shows part of a building with the word "Crumpler," second displays a seaside promenade with people walking, and third features a building with "City Fitness" on it, against a blue sky.
Eat a crumpet, squat it off.

15. Puffin

Great wine, great expectations: there’s nothing subtle about your meeting, nor the couples who occupy an entire velvet booth.

14. Zealandia

This stunning sanctuary offers everything from a casual stroll to an all-terrain adventure. I walked 15km in my new Dr Martens, by the end of which I had broken both the leather and the ice.

13. Walking the ‘waterfront’

Poorly defined, but with endless potential. One date told me it felt like commuting, but I think that says more about my company than the views.

12. City Art Gallery

Much like my love life, this is closed for the foreseeable future. Far better curated than my dates will ever be.

11. Te Papa

Go with a map and a clear, succinct agenda. You might find love, or your favourite taxidermy.

Three polaroids: the first shows the concrete courtyard of Te Papa, the second is a shadowed blue and yellow building, the last shows the entrance to TSB arena with white canopies overhead
Sports, schooners and a “colossal” squid: the Holy Grail of my dating trail.

10. Newtown Festival

When you’ve just arrived in the city, the annual Newtown Festival is like speed-dating on steroids. Meet your date’s entire friendship circle and become embroiled in a love triangle, or try polyamory. 

9. Cuba Dupa 

Like Newtown, but with costumes? I welcome the chance to gauge a person’s style, and social stamina, without the investment of going to Splore. 

8. Kisa

We declared our respective budgets before settling on the lunch menu. Somehow Kisa catered for both a FODMAP diet and a lower than average charity income. 

7. Havana

Covers all your budget bases, from a quiet pint to a big night out.

6. Meow

If music be the food of love, splash out on a gig ticket. Of course, this limits the scope for conversation. Sometimes that’s exactly what you need.

5. The Welsh Dragon

This cosy corner prides itself on being a former public toilet: an auspicious start for any burgeoning romance.

4. Leroy’s

I have a soft spot for this public servant haven, having worked above it for the past two years. There’s Pals on tap, and plenty of political rumour: prime for the city’s next literary parody. 

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3. LBQ

On a date or just mates? This is the perfect place for vague connections, and their diplomatic staff won’t bat an eyelid when you’re back the following week. 

2. Salty Pidgin

Highly commended when the fire’s on in winter, and a personal favourite for the perennial window perch.

1. TSB Arena 

This is as divisive as the sports played in the stadium, but don’t knock it till you’ve spent an evening with the NZNBL’s Wellington Saints. Just when you’re losing hope of finding your forever person, these guys will teach you what it really means to lose, and lose more valiantly. I accept this isn’t glamorous, or even faintly trendy. But there’s plenty of scope for action – on court, if not in your pest-infested room.

A vibrant urban street scene at dusk with people dining at outdoor cafés, surrounded by trees and modern shops. A green bus is visible to the right. Warm lights illuminate the area, creating a welcoming atmosphere.
A night time rendering of Courtenay Place.

SocietyFebruary 13, 2025

A review of the new Courtenay Place design

A vibrant urban street scene at dusk with people dining at outdoor cafés, surrounded by trees and modern shops. A green bus is visible to the right. Warm lights illuminate the area, creating a welcoming atmosphere.
A night time rendering of Courtenay Place.

The final designs for the long-awaited Courtenay Place revamp have been released. Joel MacManus takes a closer look at the details.

At an embargoed media briefing on Wednesday, Wellington mayor Tory Whanau and a team of council staff showed journalists a 3D-printed model of Courtenay Place. For about an hour, council officers answered detailed questions about the minutiae of the design. The Courtenay Precinct is the heart of the city’s entertainment economy and the level of detail in the design shows how deeply council officers have thought about the layout.

It’s important to note that this is not a proposal, a consultation document or another business case. This is it. At long, long, long last, this is the final design. The council has signed a construction contract for the first stage of work on the Cambridge Terrace end of the street and is currently negotiating a second contract for the remainder. Construction will begin in April.

My main takeaway from the briefing was simple: this is good. The design will make Courtenay Place a better, safer and more vibrant street. There are some parts I’m particularly excited about and others where I hold out a bit of scepticism.

Here are some of the top takeaways from the new design:

The mayor is willing to lose the election over this

In her opening speech, Whanau cited former Dunedin mayor Aaron Hawkins, a fellow Green Party member, who tied himself to the George Street redesign. The project was controversial while it was under construction and the consensus view is that it cost him re-election. Now that it is complete, the upgrade is overwhelmingly popular. Whanau fully expects the same thing to happen here. The Golden Mile has been a controversial debate and will be unpopular while roadworks are ongoing, but she predicts that it will be well-received once it is complete.

However, the timing of the local body election is terrible for her. When polls close in October, Wellington’s main street will still be a construction site. There won’t be any opportunity for people to get used to the new street and change their minds. There’s a strong chance this issue could cost Whanau the election. She had the opportunity to cut the project and save some dollars during the Long Term Plan debacle, but she considered the Golden Mile an untouchable bottom line. This is a project that Whanau genuinely believes will change Wellington for the better, and if it costs her her job, so be it.

A bike lane that fills a gap

Wellington’s bike network desperately needs a central connector – the city has built several arterial routes into the edge of the CBD, but there’s a black hole in the middle of the city, which makes it difficult for riders to access workplaces and retail areas. In the new design, the busy Newtown-to-city bike lane will turn onto Courtenay Place and continue until Taranaki Street at the centre of Te Aro.

The tradeoff with this bike lane is, of course, space. The bike lane takes space that could otherwise be given to pedestrians, though the new footpaths will still be much wider than the current layout.  It also creates a potential conflict zone with pedestrians, but it is lined with planter boxes to keep the spaces separated.

A bustling urban street scene with people walking, biking, and sitting on benches. Trees and planters line the sidewalk. Shops and cafes are visible, with a clear sky above.
The design for Courtenay Place near the corner of Cambridge Terrace (Image: WCC)

More trees, but not yet

The video fly-through showed an enormous amount of greenery, including several fully grown trees and new rain gardens for wetland plants. It’s a great touch. Urban trees have been shown to have myriad benefits, including improving air quality, reducing public health costs, reducing noise pollution, and simply making people happierHowever, the trees will be planted during the final stages of the project, so the visual improvement may not be obvious during the construction phase. 

An opportunity on the side streets

Blair Street and Allen Street have always felt like a missed opportunity. The Courtenay Place side streets are wide, lined by beautiful old buildings and are a low-traffic zone. And yet for years, they’ve basically just been used for parking. In the design, both streets still have plenty of parking, but they become one-way streets with removable bollards at the Courtenay Place end. It also means the two streets can quite easily be closed to vehicles without requiring complex traffic management – which could allow them to be used as event spaces for fairs, markets or outdoor concerts. On the day-to-day, it means pedestrians on Courtenay Place won’t have to wait for cars to cross.

A new performance stage, but an underdeveloped plaza

I was hoping to see a bigger redesign around the pedestrian plaza on the Taranaki Street and Courtenay Place intersection. It’s a strange area that has never quite lived up to its potential as a public gathering place. Widening the pavement or even just rearranging the seating could have made a difference. However, it is mostly unchanged in the new redesign. This section was rebuilt more recently than the rest so the council has decided the cost to redo that bit isn’t justified.

The one change to the area is Ngā Ūranga, a new stage and seating area for street performers, featuring power outlets for lighting and sound.

People are enjoying a sunny day in an urban plaza with modern architecture. There are trees lining the street, a bicycle lane, and wooden benches where some are sitting and talking. The area is bustling with activity and features a mix of shops and cafes.
The new Ngā Ūranga seating and stage area outside St James Theatre (Image: WCC)

An overcorrection on bus stops

The plan for the Golden Mile has always been to slightly reduce the number of bus stops so that buses can move more smoothly without as much disruption. The current positioning of bus stops is a holdover from the old tramway system and staff think this new layout will be more efficient. It’s not a huge change – everywhere on the Golden Mile is still within 300 metres of a bus stop – but could cause some annoyance.

The new design removes the bus stop outside St James Theatre, and the opposite location outside Reading Cinema. I’m a little sceptical about this idea but willing to be proved wrong. These stops are not particularly well-used, but that could change once the Reading complex opens again. There are large loading zones on both sides of the road which could be converted to bus stops if demand justifies it.

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Finally doing something about lighting

The new design includes more street lights, placed more evenly throughout the street. This is a small but important change. Research shows better street lighting is a reliable and inexpensive way to reduce crime. A US department of justice study found that improved street lighting led to a 21% decrease in crime. Even more so, better street lighting improves perceptions of safety, which is essential for a nightlife area.

In praise of the pavers

If you’ve ever had the misfortune of walking down Courtenay Place in the rain, you’ll know the orange footpath tiles are slipperier than a banana peel coated in lube. Thankfully, the new tiles are much grippier. Staff confirmed they had tested the pavers and found they were still grippy even when covered in water, wine and fried chicken.