Mum Mary reaches out to her rock star daughter.
Mum Mary reaches out to her rock star daughter.

ĀteaApril 7, 2020

Rock ‘n’ roll dreams do come true (even during a pandemic)

Mum Mary reaches out to her rock star daughter.
Mum Mary reaches out to her rock star daughter.

The locked-down residents of a Wellington rest home – including her mum – are treated to a live gig courtesy of historian and author Rachel Buchanan (Taranaki, Te Ātiawa).

Ever since I was Dorothy in the New Plymouth Operatic Society’s production of The Wizard of Oz, I have wanted an international music career. Some 40 years later, this virus has made my dreams come true.

My debut gig was a sundowner at a place I like to call “Le VAP”. It’s an exclusive, members-only establishment in Wellington. If you’re in, you’re in and if you’re not – well, forget it. Le VAP is off limits to all but an elite few. Aditi, my new booking agent, is one of them.

The call went out last week via email. Subject line: “Any hidden talents?” That got my attention. Yes! Toto nipped at my heels. Where troubles melt like lemon drops, away above the chimney tops…

Aditi wrote: “We are seeking any of you who may know how to play an instrument or sing. We are here supporting our residents with online music concerts; however it would be great if any whānau member would like to do any online singing or play an instrument.”

I emailed. Then called. Aditi already knew I could play the ukulele because she’s heard me sing when I visit Mum, a popular resident at Le VAP. The singing fills the gaps in conversation – which can be quite long when you’re speaking to someone with dementia.

Mum, Mary Buchanan, mother of eight, grandmother of 10, aged 75, lives in the Mary Coleman Hospital Wing of Village at the Park (VAP), widowed 2017, likes to whistle, grew up on a farm in Dipton, religious, has a large collection of beanies.

Aditi is the wellness leader at Le VAP. She has to pep people up, even during a pandemic. Aditi lives in a flat with four others, all students. “They stay in their rooms studying and watching TV,” she said. Aditi was the only one who still had a job. Public transport was now free but Aditi walked to work because she felt it was safer.

I sat at my kitchen table in Melbourne. I listened to Aditi and watched nobody walk by. Three teenagers and me in lockdown. Another work video-conference looming. Across the road, a train flicked by between the houses. It was empty but on time.

Somewhere over the rainbow, bluebirds fly…

Could I do the concert today? Not cool to be so keen but whatever. I’d only been waiting four decades for this chance – my first solo gig! I told Aditi one of my daughters could play trumpet and would join me in a back-up capacity.

The hardest time of day for people with dementia is 4pm. “The sundowner. Have you heard of it?” Aditi said. People could feel blue, confused, agitated and alone. Could I play then?

The flyers went out. “Rachel and family music concert, 4pm. Join the Zoom meeting.”

Rachel and family. The phrase conjured Julie Andrews and outfits made from curtains. I loved it!

Set list, warm-up, tuning, standing up or sitting down, outfit, location, computer position, I was really nervous and immediately started badgering the teenager to practise – a massive rock ‘n’ roll power move and it went down very well, as you can imagine.

The suggestion was made to start with some ballads, then move onto the jazzier stuff. I pulled out the greatest hits from my last visit to Le VAP, just four weeks ago. ‘You Are My Sunshine’, ‘Love Me Tender’, ‘Dream A Little Dream Of Me’. Mum could magically remember quite a few words in each one.

I had to throw in ‘Kumbaya’ because it’s easy and it’s got God in it.

As I was rearranging the sheet music, a forgotten tune fell out. As if possessed, I started to pick the notes out, then strum the chords, then shout out the single lyric. “Tequila!” Then I recalled how much Mum loved the Nancy Sinatra track ‘These Boots Are Made For Walking’. Then I thought, why not also go the punky ‘What I Like About You’ by the Romantics?

At 2pm Australian time, I let rip with ‘My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean’. Then the trumpeter played ‘Danny Boy’ and ‘When the Saints’. The screen flashed up Mum in the front row of the hospital wing. She waved. Then it switched to the scene in the dementia wing. Then over to the rest home. Then Aditi’s face frowned into the camera. Then the woman next to Mum asked to be wheeled out. This was stadium rock at its finest.

I pulled out ‘Tequila’. My youngest one started to laugh. I shouted out the name of the eponymous hard liquor and suggested everyone at Le VAP be given several shots of it before dinner.

Behind Mum, carers unfurled waterproof tablecloths. I picked out the opening notes of ‘Boots’. The show was nearly over. You keep saying, you’ve got something for me, something you call love but confess….

Suddenly a figure burst into the left-hand side of the screen. It was the carer with the long blond dreadlocks, the one with the French accent, and he was leaning back and and he was kicking his legs into the air and he was moving across the dining room, dancing.

He helped Mum stand up and she walked up to us. Mum lifted up her right hand and reached out to the screen. She was smiling. We were clapping and cheering. Mum wiped her cheeks. The carer picked up his skateboard and walked out. Aditi said thank you.

The only lyrics that came into my head were from a song I don’t know how to play.

We can be heroes. For ever and ever.

Keep going!
(Image: Te Parapara gardens)
(Image: Te Parapara gardens)

ĀteaApril 1, 2020

Learning to live by the maramataka: Paengawhāwhā

(Image: Te Parapara gardens)
(Image: Te Parapara gardens)

Paengawhāwhā (April) also known as Kaipō or Whetūkaupō (Deneb star) is the eleventh month of the Māori year and is a productive time. Get planting!

Kia ora e te whānau, ngā mihi mahana o te marama a Paengawhāwhā.

March and August are often our most challenging lunar cycles from my observation, and March 2020 may have been the most challenging for our generation after the global spread of Covid-19.

While people stay home, the planet tries to recover and heal itself from human activity that causes pollution and climate change. For many generations, our tūpuna made precise calculations based on consistent tohu (signs) in the environment. However, due to the effects of climate change, some tohu have shifted and more observation has been required to align the maramataka and tohu.

I fear for the lives of my kuia and elders and continue to commit to ‘staying home’. At this time matauranga Māori and indigenous knowledge is powerful in how we frame the pandemic, our response to it and the future beyond this. Our country is in lockdown – in other words, under whakakōpani. A whakakōpani is similar to a rāhui, to temporarily cause a place to shut down to protect our environment and wellbeing. The maramataka provides guidance to protect and nurture our environment and wellbeing. So how can we do this right now while ‘staying home’? A good place to start is to build a māra/garden. Keep those seedlings alive using the maramataka. Something we need in this time of uncertainty.

Key planting days

There are around 14 good days to plant out of 30 during this lunar phase.

1–8 April – Ariroa, Hotu, Mawharu, Atua, Ohua, Oturu, Rakaunui and Rakau ma tohi: Plant anything on these days.

14, 15 and 16 April – Tangaroa a mua, Tangaroa a roto and Tangaroa kiokio: More good planting days.

26, 27 and 28 April – Tamatea a ngana, Tamatea a hotu, Tamatea a io and Tamatea kai ariki: These days are fine but not great.

What to plant: Beetroot, blueberry, bok choi, broccoli, celery, coriander, feijoa, kale, lime, lettuce, silverbeet, spinach, mesclun salad, mandarin.

Energy phases

6, 7, and 8 April – Oturu, Rakaunui and Rakau ma tohi: The highest energy days and full moon. Stay home. It might be harder to burn energy inside four walls while it’s raining outside but if we are creative there are things we can find for the kids. My boys have been doing ‘PE with Joe’ fitness online and if they don’t listen or do their chores it’s five push-ups. Don’t forget this is also a time to plant. 

11, 12 and 13 April – Korekore tē whiwhia, Korekore tē rawea and Korekore piri ki ngā tangaroa: Stay home again and wash your hands. Perfect time for lockdown, rest and reflect. 

14, 15 and 16 April – Tangaroa a mua, Tangaroa a roto and Tangaroa kiokio: These are fruitful days, stay home!

21 April – Whiro: Please take caution, stay home and ring your loved ones. This is a time to be cautious. The Whiro moon (new moon) indicates the beginning of the next lunar cycle. 

26, 27 and 28 April – Tamatea a ngana, Tamatea a hotu, Tamatea a io and Tamatea kai ariki: This is a very unpredictable time. Look out for each other.

The above dates are specific to Auckland/Manukau Harbour and may differ from area to area. However you can use these dates as a guide for other areas as they only vary by around one to three days.  

Tohu in Paengawhāwhā

Tohu o te rangi (signs in the sky)

Paengawhāwhā in English is the Pegasus constellation which is the tohu this month. Paengawhāwhā appears with the other star Kaipō o Whetūkaupō, the Deneb star. Whetūkaupō is one of the brightest stars in the Milky Way. 

Tohu o te whenua (signs on land)

We finally reached the last summer phase ‘Matiti Rauangina’ a time of harvest. Temperatures cool and leaves swing and fall to the ground. As leaves fall from the tree it’s called “te angina” (free fall) which is why the name of this phase is ‘Matiti Rauangina’.

Please be kind, be patient and take care of each other. He waka eke noa (we are all in this together). 

Ngā mihi for the mātauranga provided by Matua Percy Tipene and Matua Rereata Makiha.