Welcome to Rongotea, a village of 600 people organising to fight a pandemic (Image: Amanda Hodge – @amandahodge_itsthelittlethings)
Welcome to Rongotea, a village of 600 people organising to fight a pandemic (Image: Amanda Hodge – @amandahodge_itsthelittlethings)

SocietyMarch 23, 2020

‘Rongocare’: How a small NZ village is helping its people through the pandemic

Welcome to Rongotea, a village of 600 people organising to fight a pandemic (Image: Amanda Hodge – @amandahodge_itsthelittlethings)
Welcome to Rongotea, a village of 600 people organising to fight a pandemic (Image: Amanda Hodge – @amandahodge_itsthelittlethings)

Rongotea has created a pandemic support network with not much more than a cellphone, an email address and goodwill. Liam Hehir explains how it works, and gives instructions on starting your own.

I live in Rongotea, a small village in the Palmerston North commuter belt. Its people are a mix of professionals working in town, people staffing the various businesses that serve local farmers and seniors who have lived here forever. About 600 souls, living on eleven cherry blossom-lined streets named after English rivers. 

Rongotea isn’t really known for much, other than the fact that it once had seven churches and no pub, earning it the nickname of the ‘Holy City’. There is a pub now and the number of churches has declined to four. Just a coincidence, I’m sure.

Village life isn’t for everyone, but one thing it does have going for it is a reservoir of social cohesion. So when a friend suggested that we get a mutual aid society going to support our vulnerable people through the pandemic, I knew instantly that it would be doable. A few phone calls and a village Facebook post later and “RongoCare” was underway.

How the network works

A phone was acquired and a sim-card obtained for the Rongotea ‘hotline’. Each of the volunteers will take a turn being the ‘operator’ and, when they get a request for help, they’ll circulate the request to the wider group. A roster has been drawn up, and we’ve got it covered through to August without anyone needing to take more than one turn.

Before you ask: yes, a protocol has been established for the thorough sanitisation of the phone and its safe handover as it rotates through the village. 

Rongotea has always had a bit of community spirit (Image: Amanda Hodge – @amandahodge_itsthelittlethings)

What help can people get?

Nobody is expected – or allowed – to do anything dangerous or which they are unqualified to do. RongoCare is not about home help, it’s about being neighbourly in a time of crisis, without making things worse. Accordingly, the type of thing we will be doing for each other are things like grocery and prescription runs, as well as phone calls to the self-isolated to check in on them. 

There will, obviously, be no close physical contact in the delivery of these services. Any items are to be left on doorsteps with phone calls to confirm completion of the task. We don’t want to make things worse when we’re trying to make them better.

And, importantly, it needs to be clear that there can never be a guarantee somebody will be available for any specific job either. We all have to take care of our own families first. But the idea is that with some coordination, we will be much better at looking out for each other while we can.

Getting the word out

Not everybody in the village uses Facebook. A flyer with the hotline number and email address was drawn up. Since we don’t have letterboxes in Rongotea, however, it’s a bit tricky to distribute. 

At this stage, we’ve put them in the windows of local businesses. The Rongotea Times newsletter will also carry a notice. The school has also agreed to get the word out. The local has also volunteered to put the word out through its channels as long as it is open.

There’s less to it than you think

When I got this going, a few people mentioned how great it would be if we could have an app to manage it all. But, in truth, it’s not that hard to get an old phone, an email account and a spreadsheet going. The hard part is the social capital you need to draw on.

The internet, for all its wonders, has been terrible for shared community life. How many of us know our neighbours? Even in places like Rongotea, where some cohesion still exists, we don’t have the solidarity that our grandparents could call upon to get them through times of trial.

But perhaps social media, so rightly blamed for the devastated vineyard of our local neighbourhoods, will now redeem itself. We can’t be physically close to each other, but we have the tools to remain in close contact regardless. Let’s put them to use.

You can do it too

We need to help each other through these times. Most people are good people and want to help. But one word of advice: don’t try to do it on your own. This virus is a collective threat and it’s going to require a collective response. Or collective responses, rather, since each community is going to have its own unique circumstances and challenges. Face it together and don’t wait around for the government to tell you what to do.

You probably don’t live in a literal village. But whether it’s a street or an apartment building, you live in and around other people. Establish those ties and you will eventually find yourself sharing more than geography. 

We’re still muddling our way through, but if you want to chat about it, feel free to drop a note to RongoCare@gmail.com.

Keep going!
Just because you can’t physically see your friends doesn’t mean you can’t be social. Photo: Getty Images.
Just because you can’t physically see your friends doesn’t mean you can’t be social. Photo: Getty Images.

SocietyMarch 21, 2020

Covid-19: How to keep your friends while keeping your distance

Just because you can’t physically see your friends doesn’t mean you can’t be social. Photo: Getty Images.
Just because you can’t physically see your friends doesn’t mean you can’t be social. Photo: Getty Images.

As we head into our first weekend with many of us in self-isolation and practising social distancing, Sam Brooks offers a few tips on how to be social while saying alone.

“I want to be alone.” – Greta Garbo, in Grand Hotel.

Those famous words are probably the opposite of what you’re feeling if, like me, you’ve been in self-isolation for close to a week. There’s a difference between being alone and being lonely, though. Yesterday at his daily briefing, Ministry of Health hero Ashley Bloomfield pointedly swapped his language around distancing. Instead of “social distancing” he called it “physical distancing”, emphasising the importance of social interaction to people’s mental health and well-being. 

As someone who is relentlessly social but also enjoys his own company, I’ve come up with a few suggestions to help you stay connected to your friends and family in the days and weeks ahead. Some of these will also keep you in touch with culture in general! The world keeps turning and burning, and there’s a whole lot of culture to catch up on, y’all.

If you’re into books

A book club! It’s the most obvious suggestion, but it’s obvious for a reason. One: It gives you something to do. Two: It gives you enforced social interaction on a deadline. Even if you can’t meet in person for now, you can keep your book club going through a group chat or a video conference hangout. 

My personal tip for making sure your book club goes the distance is to keep the membership small – it can be as small as just you and another like-minded friend – and to change up the sorts of things you’re reading. Categories can include: NZ literature, memoir, essays, fiction, fiction by a woman, fiction that will make you feel better about the world, and so on and so forth.

If you’re into movies/TV

Moving on with the club idea, start a movie or TV club with a few friends. If you want a bunch of things to watch, do a movie club. If you want to watch something over a long amount of time, then do a TV show – either something ripe for discussion (The Americans, Love is Blind, two shows that will never be mentioned in the same sentence ever again) or something that people will send a lot of emojis about (Love is Blind again, how about Jessica, right?!). This gives your social interaction some purpose beyond ‘how’re you?’ which is the most tedious question in the world, regardless of how much you care.

Discussing the show or movie after the fact is great, but you don’t have to wait that long. Netflix Party is a Chrome Extension that synchronises your viewing of any Netflix content with your friends and lets you live chat while it plays. You can even pause the show for everyone if one of you needs a bathroom break or more snacks.

This boy just got trolled with some Doja Cat. Photo: Getty Images.

If you’re into music

This is a something I’ve been doing with my overseas friends for years – and these are dudes I haven’t seen in well over a decade. We’ll throw the new songs we’re listening to into a big group playlist to keep each other updated with what we’re doing and what we’re listening to. We change the playlist up every month, and it leaves us with insanely detailed, messy records of what we’ve been listening to. I wouldn’t know what their month was like, but I know for damn sure when one of them discovered Kid Cudi five years late.

It’s a great way to keep up with new music, and also a great way to troll your friends with music you know they’ll hate. Got a friend who only listens to Fleetwood Mac? Throw some Doja Cat at them! 

If you’re into podcasts

Okay, so you know those rambly, chatty podcasts that you tend to ignore? Now is the absolutely right time for them. There’s something inherently calming about the aural presence of two people having a nice time and joking around with each other. It simulates the feelings of actually hang out with people without having to provide your own conversation. My favourites are Stop Podcasting Yourself and Best Friends with Nicole and Sasheer, but there’s literally hundreds of these kinds of podcasts out there. Find the people you want to hang out with, and listen in. Can I also recommend our very own chatfest The Real Pod?

Warning: This is not an endorsement to start your own podcast. How dare you. The world is dark enough already.

If you’re into games

Gamers the world over have been socialising with other players from the comfort of their beds for years. It’s arguably the most social media you can get! Whether playing games online with people (anything from online RPGs to basic things like card games) or sharing the things you make online (can I recommend the recent game Dreams? ), it’s pretty effortless to be social with people while playing. From The Sims and Minecraft to something simple like online chess or Scrabble, gaming let’s you have fun with your friends and socialise at the same time, without ever having to leave the house.

Now excuse me, I need to get back to Animal Crossing: New Horizons, released for the Nintendo Switch yesterday, which lets you build your own idyllic, Covid-19-free world. What a concept!

Look at this woman! Cooking while not being social. Photo: Getty Images

If you’re into food

Look, I barely cook. But I know people who do cook, and I know that they love to cook things known as ‘recipes’. A fun thing to do would be to form some sort of recipe club – find a few like minded friends to cook the same thing and share your results with each other. Share your photos, your variations, your substitutions. Form your own little cooking community!

Then: Eat the dinners together. Even though there’s no worse sound on a speaker than someone eating, there’s something weirdly calming about eating with people on a screen, especially when you have the physical freedom to do other things.

If you’re into YouTube

I realise nobody is ‘into YouTube’. The video streaming service is a core part of our lives now. It exists somewhere near the middle of the pyramid of needs, shuffling up or down depending on your generation. And because of that, YouTube is a good way to connect with other people. A game that I like to play when I’m hosting people in my lounge is to throw on YouTube and ask a question: “Do you want to watch something good, something bad, or something funny?”

We all have our favourite YouTube videos, so why not throw them together into a playlist? Whether they’re makeup tutorials, workouts, or 45 minute front-facing camera interviews with an influencer, share ‘em around. It’s not quite as social as the rest of these options, but what’s more fulfilling than sharing the innermost sanctum of your soul? Not much, says this bleak man.

Just stay in touch

Ultimately, the thing to do is stay in touch with each other. 

Ask people how they are. And vice versa: let people know how you are. It’s how the world goes around, and nobody hates hearing from the people who care about them. Especially, in these corona-times, reach out to your gloomy friends, you know, the people whose curtains are closed by default. We love these people, and they love us back, but sometimes they might need to be shown or told it a bit more.

You might not be able to bring light in from the outside, but at least you can light up their notifications. Keep your distance from your loved ones – but don’t, you know, keep your distance.