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SocietyMarch 1, 2022

What to do if your child tests positive for Covid-19

Image: Getty Images, additional design by Tina Tiller
Image: Getty Images, additional design by Tina Tiller

As omicron cases increase nationwide, so too does the number of tamariki who are testing positive for the virus. So what do parents need to know about caring for a child with Covid?

This post was first published on the author’s newsletter, Emily Writes Weekly.

Right now a lot of parents are worried about what they should be doing if their child gets Covid-19. With help from Dr Morgan Edwards, I’ve put together a guide on what to do to keep your tamaiti as comfortable as possible, how to protect others in your whare, and when to seek help.

What to do if your child gets Covid-19

First: Don’t panic. This isn’t your fault. Omicron is highly contagious.

If your child hasn’t been tested but they’re showing the following symptoms, stay home until they have been tested. Call the Covid-19 line on 0800 358 5453 to get a test.

Symptoms of Covid-19

  • Fever
  • Cough
  • Trouble breathing
  • Gastrointestinal problems – sore tummy, nausea, vomiting and diarrhoea
  • Headaches
  • Muscle aches
  • Loss of taste and smell
  • Cold symptoms e.g sore throat and/or sneezing

Omicron is a weird virus – some tamariki will get very sick, some tamariki won’t have any symptoms at all. Some tamariki will have symptoms caused by inflammation throughout the body, sometimes several weeks after they contracted Covid-19. This is called multisystem inflammatory syndrome (MIS-C).

Symptoms of  MIS-C to be on the lookout for are ongoing fever PLUS more than one of the following: gastrointestinal issues, bloodshot eyes, dizziness or lightheadedness (signs of low blood pressure), skin rash. Contact your doctor or take them to a hospital or after-hours if your child is showing symptoms of MIS-C. If your child develops MIS-C they will be treated at the children’s hospital or in the ICU (intensive care unit).

Getting tested

If you think your child has symptoms of Covid-19, call your GP or the Covid line on 0800 358 5453. They will give you the most up-to-date information on testing.

Children should be tested if symptomatic and present with either typical or atypical symptoms. Contact your GP or your local testing centre to organise a PCR or RAT test. PCR tests will be used for people who need it most, and rapid antigen tests (RATs) are becoming more widely available, particularly in Auckland. When you go for a test, the testing centre will let you know which test — RATs or PCR is best for you. Positive RAT results do not need to be confirmed with a PCR test unless advised.

If your child tests positive for Covid-19

You must isolate with them for 10 days. You will be sent a link to complete an online form, which will help identify locations you have visited and people you have come into close contact with.

After 10 days, and if you are free of Covid-19 symptoms, you will be free to leave isolation. You do not need a negative test. Your 10 days do not reset if another member of your household tests positive for Covid-19 – but if you yourself test positive, your 10 days begin again.

How to isolate with your Covid-19-positive child

If possible, isolate your tamaiti with one parent or caregiver in a room away from the rest of the whānau. Wash your hands often. Wash doorknobs and surfaces. Wear an N95 mask as often as possible. Keep windows open to help with air flow and ventilation. If you’re pregnant, see if you can have another caregiver or parent look after your tamariki so you can limit contact.

If you have a high-risk adult or child in your house, consider having them isolated in another room, another area of the house, or at another family member or friend’s house. If this isn’t possible, they should always wear a mask and limit interactions as much as possible.

Keep other people and pets in the house away from your child as much as possible.

If you can, have your sick child use a different bathroom from others. If that isn’t possible, wipe down the bathroom often.

High-risk means those who are / have–

  • Unvaccinated
  • Immunocompromised either from disease or medications
  • Aged 65 or older
  • Chronic lung disease including moderate to severe uncontrolled asthma, BPD from prematurity, Interstitial lung disease, Pulmonary hypertension, COPD
  • Heart conditions
  • Chronic kidney or liver disease
  • Dementia
  • Diabetes
  • Down Syndrome
  • Severe mental illness

According to the Ministry of Health, people who smoke/vape, are pregnant, and/or are obese also face elevated risk if they contract Covid-19.

If a high-risk person in your whānau gets Covid-19, contact their specialist or hospital care team immediately.

If someone in your whānau gets Covid-19 despite taking precautions, remember, it’s very contagious. It’s not your fault. Be kind and gentle with yourself.

How to look after your Covid-19 positive child

You’ve got this. Stay calm. It’s likely your pēpē has been sick before, and you’ve been able to handle it. Covid-19 is no different.

  • Keep them well-hydrated.
  • Monitor nappies and wees to make sure they’re drinking enough.
  • Don’t worry if they’re not hungry.
  • Rest often. Use paracetamol for fevers. Some tamariki might struggle with oral paracetamol if they have a sore throat. Ask your pharmacist or doctor about rectal paracetamol.
  • Use nasal suction or steam.
  • Make sure they rest as much as possible – screen time is fine!
  • Keep a close eye on their breathing – if they have any pauses in breathing, seem to be straining to breathe or have irregular or fast breathing, or if they’re too out of breath to talk or are out of breath after walking or if they turn blue or faint, call 111 immediately.

When to get help

If your child has a disability or is high risk contact your paediatrician or care team as soon as they’re diagnosed.

If your child does not have a disability, is vaccinated and is not high risk, take them to hospital or after-hours if:

  • They look really unwell – you’re their parent, trust your instincts.
  • They are confused or very sleepy
  • They have chest pain
  • They are cold, sweaty, pale or have blotchy skin
  • They are dizzy
  • They have very bad belly pain
  • Look for contractions on their chest, like pulling in between the ribs or the nostrils puffing with their breathing. If they have breathing problems, go to hospital.

If you’re not sure, call the dedicated Covid-19 Healthline, 24 hours a day, seven days a week for free on 0800 358 5453

Again: Call 111 immediately if your child has any pauses in breathing; seem to be straining to breathe or has irregular or fast breathing; if they’re too out of breath to talk; if they are out of breath after walking; or if they turn blue or faint.

Self-care

This is a scary time for you as a parent. Remember to fill your cup if you can. Talk to your friends by phone and ask for help with deliveries of groceries.

Be kind and gentle to yourself. Consider this karakia by Mero Irihapeti to protect your heart as you care for your tamariki and whānau.

Hā ki roto | Breathe in

Hā ki waho | Breathe out

Kia tau te mauri e kokiri nei | Settle the mauri that stirs inside of me

I nga piki me ngā heke | Through the ups and the downs

Ko te rangimarie tāku e rapu nei | It is peace that I seek

Tihei mauri ora

 

Keep going!
Image: Archi Banal
Image: Archi Banal

SocietyMarch 1, 2022

Why would a Real Housewife of Auckland go to the parliament protest?  

Image: Archi Banal
Image: Archi Banal

The anti-mandate parliament protest has seen several high-profile New Zealanders voice their support. Alex Casey asks one former TV star about her motivations for making the trip.

Anne Batley-Burton is smiling in the sunshine, holding a glass of champagne, on the deck of her own boat in Auckland harbour. “Not sure what’s happening with all that’s going on,” the caption below the photo begins, “BUT the most important thing is that I am making a trip to Wellington in support of the anti-mandate protestors!”

Batley-Burton, aka The Champagne Lady from The Real Housewives of Auckland, is the latest high-profile New Zealander to put her support behind the protest in Wellington. She follows in the footsteps of Sir Russell Coutts, The Masked Singer winner Jason Kerrison, and her fellow Real Housewives of Auckland star Gilda Kirkpatrick. 

Why are the rich and famous flocking to parliament grounds like it’s Live Aid? Why is The Champagne Lady appearing to set sail to Wellington from Soul Bar? 

On Monday last week, soon after she’d made the Instagram post, Batley-Burton told me the photo she used to announce her support for the protests was actually an old one taken during the America’s Cup, because she “didn’t have one that was relevant to the protests”. Batley-Burton said she is vaccinated herself, but doesn’t agree with the mandates. “I’ve heard of people who have lost their jobs, I’ve heard of businesses that have gone under and collapsed,” she says. “All these poor people in hospitality.”

Speaking from her second home, Goose Creek in Huapai, north-west of Auckland – she divides her time between here and her house in Parnell – she said: “I know so many people that have had their families ripped apart, people who have lost their jobs, businesses that have gone under.” Her motivation to visit Wellington is to hear the stories of “down-to-earth, decent everyday citizens” who have had their lives affected, she said.

She intended to interview people for Face TV, home of her series Keeping Up With Champagne Lady. 

In the hospitality industry herself, Batley-Burton said she too has been “badly affected” by Covid-19 restrictions. “I was looking forward to all the Christmas business and people having functions, but my charity ball hasn’t been able to go ahead,” she said, referring to her annual Pussy Party fundraiser for the hundreds of stray cats she shelters in Goose Creek. “We are getting very few donations and are unable to do fundraisers, so it’s just a really difficult time.”

Indeed, just before she answered the phone, she had been picking up all her unworn evening wear that had fallen to the floor due to a faulty wardrobe rack. “By the time all the parties start again, they will probably all be out of fashion,” she lamented. “Terrible. I’m looking at all these beautiful sparkly dresses and wondering if I am ever going to get to wear them. Terrible.” 

Dr Sanjana Hattotuwa, a digital communications researcher for Te Pūnaha Matatini, is not surprised to see more and more high-profile people throwing their names behind the protest. “Of course they are going to latch onto whatever is happening in front of the Beehive, because of the sheer centrality that the protests have in the national psyche,” he said. “It is leading all the media coverage, so why wouldn’t you want to be associated with it?” 

I asked if Batley-Burton had any response to the online criticism that, as a Real Housewives of Auckland star, she might be perceived as out of touch with the people worst affected by the pandemic. “People have these ideas in their head that because I’m reasonably well off, that I have an easy ride, but the only way I can do what I do for the cats is because I work hard,” she said. “I’m scooping pussy poop everyday, I’m used to getting my hands dirty, so that’s not really a problem for me.” 

Nonetheless, Batley-Burton did not intend to camp on her visit to the protest. “Oh god no,” she laughed. “I’ve never been into camping, sorry. Definitely no camping, I don’t think I’ve ever been camping in my life.” She intended to wear a wide-brimmed hat, a sensible pair of wedges and a summery dress – “I won’t wear the stilettos on the lawn.”

Hattouwa’s concern with how the protest is being presented on social media, through the unconventional channels of mumfluencers and reality TV stars, is that they can avoid some of the darker and more extreme goals that some protesters – including violent white supremacists – are trying to achieve. “There is a very, very dark side to this protest,” he says. “It is the case in Ottawa, it is the case in every other country where these are taking place.”

Two days later, Batley-Burton spoke to me over the phone from Wellington. She’d spent a day at the protest and described the experience as “fabulous – like a jolly festival”. Despite being nervous about entering on her own, and her fellow Koru Club members warning her that she would have to “take her own armour”, Batley-Burton said she felt safe navigating the protest and interviewing people about their motivations. 

“I met some really nice people who told their stories,” she said, having spoken to a barista, an engineer and a camera operator who all lost their jobs due to the mandates. I asked how she felt about the extremist views of some of the protesters, including bizarre conspiracy theories, misogyny, far-right white supremacist ideology and calls for the execution of politicians and media. 

“Sadly with any sort of protest, you get these idiots who get in and cause a whole lot of rubbish,” she said. “I was very lucky, I didn’t come across anybody like that.” Still, she mentioned meeting a man who had an “interesting” theory about frequencies being emitted towards protesters from the Beehive – “I haven’t had a chance to look that up.” 

A caravan at the Wellington protests. Photo: Stewart Sowman-Lund

Before she left for Wellington, Batley-Burton said she was warned by fellow Housewives star Louise Wallace that attending the protest was a bad idea. “She was concerned it would be bad for my brand, god, but it’s not actually about me, it’s supposed to be about the people,” said Batley-Burton. On arrival, she bumped into fellow Housewives star Gilda Kirkpatrick, who took her on an on-camera tour around the site that afternoon. “It was a mini reunion, I suppose.” 

Hattouwa said he supports the right for people to protest in a democracy, but remained concerned about the way the protest is being presented through certain social media channels. “I’ve gone on the record as saying that I think the mandates should be debated and argued and discussed in a democratic society,” he said, “but one of the harms is that followers are going to be exposed to something which they might not fully understand.” 

After a busy afternoon at the protest and an evening of champagne and Uber Eats in her hotel room, Batley-Burton said she had learned “there’s a huge amount of sadness and despair out there”. As we chatted, she was perusing the beauty aisles of high-end department store David Jones for lipstick before heading home. “Never miss a chance to go to David Jones,” she laughed. “They always have things you can’t get in Auckland.”