A woman's arm wearing many sparkly bangles, with painted orange nails, holds a match to light colourful diyas (small oil lamps) on a surface strewn with flower petals
Diyas are traditional, but fairy lights work too (Photo: Getty Images)

SocietyOctober 23, 2023

A beginner’s guide to celebrating Diwali

A woman's arm wearing many sparkly bangles, with painted orange nails, holds a match to light colourful diyas (small oil lamps) on a surface strewn with flower petals
Diyas are traditional, but fairy lights work too (Photo: Getty Images)

The two most important ingredients? Light and food.

Even though I’m not Hindu, I’ve been celebrating Diwali since I was a child. 

I love that it’s a celebration of light over darkness. Thousands of years ago, it was on Diwali that Lord Rama with his wife Sita returned to Ayodhya (the birthplace of many gods and goddesses) after killing the demon God Ravana and being in exile for 14 years. To symbolise the victory of good over evil, the entire kingdom was lit with clay lamps – diyas – and firecrackers lit the sky.

Now whether you celebrate Diwali with diyas, fireworks or a $2 battery-operated tealight is up to you. I tend to celebrate it the way my youngest eats his dinner. I gobble up the tastiest, easiest bits, drop a lot on the floor so it looks like I made an effort and leave the crusty hard bits for Mum to finish.

Fairy lights instead of diyas? It works. Store-bought savoury snacks instead of spending hours making them at home? Check. Chalk-drawn rangoli rather than intricate multi-coloured patterns? That counts too.

Because in my book, traditions are not about following a recipe to perfection. Traditions are a way for us to assert our identity. And just like our identity evolves with our beliefs and the season of our lives, traditions have permission to evolve.

This year Diwali is on November 12, though the festivities run from the 10th until the 14th. If you’re keen to get amongst it with minimal effort, here are five easy steps. 

You could treat yourself to some shiny jewellery for Dhanteras, or grab a new kitchen utensil or two (Photo: Sonu Mehta/Hindustan Times via Getty Images)

Bribe or boss family members into cleaning the house

Before the festivities can begin, a good Marie Kondo-style spring cleaning is essential to kill the negativity and welcome the positive vibes.

Growing up, Mum and Granny would “clean” the house or rather supervise our domestic help who did the actual cleaning. I was enlisted to climb the six-foot wooden ladder and sweep the ceiling fan clean. 

I’ve tried similar bossing around of my kiddos. Bribing too. But neither has worked. My approach this year – hire a cleaner.

Buy silver, gold or steel for Dhanteras

Dhanteras marks the beginning of Diwali and if you were waiting for a sign to buy jewellery or a shiny new gadget, this is it!

The mythological story goes that Yama (God of Death) appeared in the form of a serpent to bite King Hima’s son. But, he was blinded by the gleam of all the gold, silver and brass his wife had laid out and could not enter the room that saved his life. 

To ensure a long life for you and the family, you therefore go shopping for shiny silver, gold or, at the very least, some steel for the kitchen. 

If this feels daunting, there’s nothing wrong with printing out a mandala to colour in (Photo: INDRANIL MUKHERJEE/AFP via Getty Images)

Skip the adult colouring and give rangoli a try

While rangoli – colourful chalk patterns – is synonymous with Diwali, the tradition comes from women stuck at home using everyday items like lime chalk, flour and dried grains to both express their creativity and keep ants away from the house. It’s also neighbour code that you’re throwing a party and might steal their off-street parking.

You can make a rangoli with chalk using dot patterns or flowers from the garden. You can also follow my lead and simply laminate a mandala you coloured in. Indulging in Rangoli gives me something fun and messy to do with the kids and reminds me to be more present. Think of it as giant adult colouring.

Give the gift of food

Rather than cheap K-mart crap you don’t really need, the emphasis at Diwali is on food gifts. Think boxes of Indian mithai, gift hampers of savoury Indian snacks or even boxes of mixed dry fruits. Growing up, Mum used Diwali as a chance to get together with her mates and learn new Indian desserts. 

During lockdown, I went the “mom living on a homestead” route. My kids and I made jam using the frozen strawberries we had picked last summer, ribboned together fresh herb bouquets from our backyard and left our parcels on the postbox for neighbours to collect. Guess who won some free babysitting brownie points?

A Delhi biryani vendor (Photo: Getty Images)

Eat together, preferably a biryani

This is when you give thanks for the good stuff for about 47 seconds before indulging in delicious food. Food is something that unites us all and my favourite thing to cook at Diwali – or any party really – is biryani. Imagine a heady melody of slow-cooked protein, aromatic whole spices like cardamom, cloves and cinnamon and long grains of rice bringing everything together. There’s also no joy that beats digging around a big pot of biryani for that perfectly succulent piece of lamb before someone else steals it. 

The list of ingredients for a biryani can feel overwhelming. This is why I urge you to use shortcuts like ordering a Diwali special biryani meal kit I’ve put together with My Food Bag or buying a family pack from your local Indian restaurant – my favourite is the one from Bawarchi on Sandringham Road in Auckland.

If any of the steps above feel hard, remember that the only requirement for “celebrating Diwali” is food and a single burning lamp. No intricate food experiments for us this year – we’re sticking to a carrot halwa – but the kids are old enough to paint diyas so we’re having fun with that instead.

Keep going!
All workwear (Image: Archi Banal)
All workwear (Image: Archi Banal)

SocietyOctober 23, 2023

The future of workwear

All workwear (Image: Archi Banal)
All workwear (Image: Archi Banal)

What we wear to work says a lot about our jobs, our culture, and ourselves. What do the origins of professional dress tell us about its future?  

For most of us, paid employment takes up a significant part of our lives. What we wear to work says a lot: how we conceive of work itself, what occupational hazards might result from the job we do and cultural conceptions of respectability, to name a few. But in the digital era, hot off the heels of the pandemic, our relationship to work is changing. How does our workwear reflect this evolving relationship, and what is the future of professional dress?

One of the original symbols of workwear was authority. In European history, court liveries – special clothes worn by the servants of wealthy families – were the first uniforms. Through colour, insignia, cut and decoration, they would illustrate a houses’ authority and wealth. Armies were the next to adopt uniforms, with appearance varying to denote rank. 

In the modern era, some mandatory uniforms originate in response to occupational hazards, like firefighter’s suits. But uniforms are still used predominantly for those in a service or state industry, and they’re still markers of authority: authority to access your property (eg to deliver mail, collect rates or respond to an emergency); authority to handle financial transactions; authority to fly a plane, and so on. 

But workwear has evolved beyond uniforms. With the rise of the office class in the 50s came the birth of the “business” dress code. Many items considered appropriate for professional spaces originate in formal, traditional European dress, the suit being the most iconic example. Colonialism in the previous centuries meant that Western clothing was considered a sign of progress and civilization, and adopted in colonised countries. These values found their way into our modern perceptions of business wear. 

Dress codes have often been used to oppress minorities and enforce the dominant cultural standards. In recent years, school dress codes have consistently made headlines for reinforcing racism and sexism, but that’s true in the professional world as well. Through the feminist, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ movements of recent decades, a growing cultural awareness of diversity has meant a pushback against certain dress codes and a reexamination of what’s considered professional, or not. Rules around visible tattoos and piercings have relaxed, for example. 

Since the 90s, corporate dress codes have been relaxing, and there’s also a trend towards diversity and inclusion: some workplaces like Kiwibank are adopting more customisable uniforms which include options that reflect gender and religious diversity, as well as encouraging staff to wear cultural markers. “Outside of a uniform where there may be an occupational health and safety standard, individuality is being embraced rather than having to fit a certain mould,” says Dress for Success volunteer Kim. 

The Kiwibank wardrobe that Kiri Nathan helped to design (Image: Kiwibank)

The past few decades have seen massive social change and disruption. The advent of the internet led to mass social movements and organisation on a new scale, and a pandemic forced a re-evaluation of almost every aspect of life. So it makes sense that in recent years our relationship to work, and therefore workwear, has also been shaken up. 

The pandemic caused massive changes to our work culture, normalising remote work and creating demand for a more flexible working culture. It’s no wonder then, that workwear is reflecting these new conceptions of work, with less of a need to reinforce a sense of authority through dress and a preference for casual attire, especially for those who work from home. “I think businesses are beginning to realise, particularly if you’re in a back-office sort of job, what does it matter what you wear?” says Andrea Hardy, who also works with Dress for Success and has extensive experience in the HR world.

Increasingly, even leaders are pushing the boundaries of workwear and questioning formality. Rawiri Waititi made headlines for wearing his Nike Air Jordans in the house of Parliament, and Jacinda Ardern donned a hijab to show solidarity with Christchurch’s Muslim community.

So what is the future of workwear, given all this? I have the depressing hunch that work and life will become increasingly synonymous, because we’ll always working in some form, whether that’s our formal job, side hustle, or the monetisation of our hobbies. A lot of that work will be online, so Kirsten Smedley, Auckland Central manager for Dress for Success, predicts a trend toward wearable technology.

The future of workwear might also be considerably more practical. As climate change worsens and people become increasingly environmentally conscious, Smedley points towards practical solutions to commuting and unexpected weather events. Perhaps one day the gumboot might be acceptable office footwear. Smedley also doesn’t think the trend toward more casual attire is going away. 

It’s difficult to predict exactly how our cultural perception of work, and therefore our dress codes, will change in the future. But one thing’s for sure: workwear will continue to reflect the zeitgeist. 

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