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Bright Sky can help people get out of abusive situations (Image: Getty)
Bright Sky can help people get out of abusive situations (Image: Getty)

PartnersFebruary 8, 2023

How technology could help address our family violence problem

Bright Sky can help people get out of abusive situations (Image: Getty)
Bright Sky can help people get out of abusive situations (Image: Getty)

In the digital age, online activity can be a conduit for abusive behaviours. But secure digital tools can also offer a lifeline for victims.   

It’s no secret that New Zealand has a family violence epidemic, with one third of women physically or sexually assaulted by a partner over their lifetimes. Police respond to a family violence episode every 3 minutes – and that’s just the tip of the iceberg, as 87% of all family violence is never reported to police, according to a recent Violence Against Women study. So where are those 87% of victims, and what is getting in the way of getting help? 

Family violence encompasses a lot more than individual physical or sexual assaults. These are almost always part of a pattern of behaviour aimed at gaining control and power over a partner (usually a woman) to bind them to the relationship. “You don’t generally get punched in the face on a first date”, says Dr Natalie Thorburn, principal policy advisor at Women’s Refuge. She explains that abusers tend to first set up the relationship dynamic so their victims have less options for help or support before they even use violence against them for the first time. “It begins with isolating the victim and restricting what they do, who they talk to, and what options they have outside the relationship”, says Thorburn. “The more an abusive partner isolates their victim, the more confident they feel about hurting them and getting away with it”. 

Bright Sky can help people in abusive situations find information, support and help to get out (Image: Getty)

The rise of smartphones and other digital technology offers perpetrators a host of new ways to monitor and restrict what their victims can do and who they can communicate with – making it difficult for some of them to find any viable way of seeking help. Women’s Refuge likens it to being “kept on a digital leash”. Thorburn adds that “that kind of controlling behaviour isn’t new; it’s always been a tactic that abusers have used. But the digital age means the tools that abusers use to do that are now more efficient and have a lot more reach over victims’ lives”.

During Covid-19 lockdowns, family violence organisations around the world, including Women’s Refuge, raised concerns about how women could reach out for support without access to privacy – either in the physical world or the digital one. Many of these organisations advocated for the use of secure and digitally private spaces as alternative pathways to support, such as Shielded Site, which offers real-time communication with victims without leaving a digital footprint.

In Aotearoa, one promising solution is the development of apps like Bright Sky NZ. Originating in the UK and released here in partnership between Te Rourou, Vodafone Aotearoa Foundation and the Ministry of Social Development, the Bright Sky NZ app aims to provide safe, practical and confidential information for victims of family violence, or those concerned for someone else’s safety. 

Sinead Kirwan, spokesperson for the Vodafone Aotearoa Foundation, said that the Foundation was keen to support the Bright Sky kaupapa. “We have a vision of an Aotearoa New Zealand where all young people have access to the resources and support they need to thrive. Ensuring young people have safe environments to grow is an important part of this equation.”  

Vodafone Aotearoa Foundation’s Sinead Kirwan (Image: Supplied)

But accessibility is far from the only barrier to seeking help – myths about what family violence is or isn’t get in the way too. “If your partner convinces you that his aggression is your fault, and tells you that in dozens of different ways over and over again, of course you start believing it”, says Thorburn. “But without a way to put those experiences in that family violence context, it can be hard to find the language to make sense of it for yourself, let alone to explain it to anyone else”. 

In her time at Women’s Refuge, she’s noticed that for many women, kanohi ki te kanohi (face-to-face) conversations, or even korero over the phone, can be a daunting prospect. “Women who come to us often say they knew something wasn’t OK, they knew it was violent, but that finding the words, saying them out loud, taking that leap of faith that someone will respond well… it can all get a bit much”. Thorburn also points out that young people, in particular, no longer see phoning an organisation to find out more about something as an intuitive or “normal” way of solving problems. “Young people are digital natives – they’re far more likely to tap into online spaces or digital apps for information, so we need to have support options that meet them where they’re at”. 

Bright Sky NZ includes features such as a quick-dial button to call police, a means for victims to store information or evidence of their experiences of violence over time, and information about different forms of abuse. The benefits of having easily accessible information extend beyond victims themselves, for example by enabling people concerned about their loved ones to tap into the expert-approved information on the app and understand more about how they can help.  

Woman’s Refuge’s Natalie Thorburn (Image: Supplied)

Women’s Refuge sees the app and information it contains as a vital resource, especially as people sometimes have trouble naming non-physical forms of abuse as violence, which carry their own forms of stigma and are not always obvious to others. Thorburn says that these behaviours may go unrecognised because “we’re so used to seeing aspects of people’s lives documented online, and often we don’t think twice about what might be going on behind the scenes”. 

These coercive behaviours often go hand-in-hand with other types of violence, and might include economic abuse or intimate partner stalking, especially through technology. She gives the example of everyday location-tracking apps, which can be used to monitor and control victims. Thorburn says abusers may also insist on being given the passwords to their partners’ devices, which may be a way to digitally isolate them by restricting any opportunities to talk to others. Smart devices may also be used to intimidate, manipulate, and coerce partners remotely, and there’s even the risk that an abuser could access sensitive information like health records.

Women’s Refuge believes that since abuse methods often involve technology, technology must also be a part of combating abuse. Some providers are doing “amazing stuff” in this space, says Thorburn, referring to the safety features of Bright Sky NZ. “But we will always be here to push them.” The goal is a world where all digital spaces are designed with safety for victims as a priority.

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The pink flowers used to decorate these outdoor columns (Image: Athfield’s; additional design: Tina Tiller)
The pink flowers used to decorate these outdoor columns (Image: Athfield’s; additional design: Tina Tiller)

PartnersFebruary 3, 2023

The Single Object: A fallen petal of Athfield’s church

The pink flowers used to decorate these outdoor columns (Image: Athfield’s; additional design: Tina Tiller)
The pink flowers used to decorate these outdoor columns (Image: Athfield’s; additional design: Tina Tiller)

Now demolished, the First Church of Christ Scientist was a masterclass of architectural imagination. Kate Linzey visits the site on which it once stood, to learn more.

The object is delicate and small. Small enough to sit in the palm of my hand and weighing less than 300 grams. It is a ceramic fragment, a remnant of a larger work.

The fragment is not broken like a pottery sherd from an archaeological site, but it is partial. A hardened teardrop pressed from a mould, mass-produced, one of many. This regularity is made unique by hand-incised contours that decorate the surface. The clay was fired but remained white, indicating a high porcelain content. The glaze on its front face is a semi-translucent pink, while the back is much more worker-ly. A gob of glue, deeply encrusted with building dirt, carries the rusty imprint of a bolt head, and, faintly, in yellow pencil, a construction note records where and how this fragment was located within the greater whole.

These construction notes are some of the remaining records of how these delicate petals fit together; Neville Porteous, the man who pressed, fired and glazed each one, passed away in April 2022.

A selection of petals, saved when the church was demolished (Photo: Athfield’s)

Porteous made hundreds of these petals from three moulds between 1981 and 1983, following the design of Clare Athfield. My petal is of the smallest type. A second is long and split like the tongue of a snake. The third, the largest, is much rounder with three points, like a cartoon crown. Fitted together the petals become a flower. Five flowers decorate the capitals – the uppermost section of a column – of the First Church of Christ Scientist. At least they did; the church, formerly of Willis St, Wellington, was demolished in 2022 to make room for the new – though with recession imminent, the arrival date on that construction is yet undetermined. The fallen petals are now stored, wrapped in bubbled plastic, stashed in boxes, stacked in corners and under tables. They, along with a wall of tiles by Doreen Blumhardt and a stained-glass window by James Walker, are what remain of the Ian Athfield-designed church.

The commission for this church’s design had come to Athfield’s office with the most open of briefs. The new building need only replicate the functionality of the old premises on The Terrace: provide room for lectures and discussions, space for an organ, and allow, according to architect and writer David Mitchell, “questions to be asked by the very architecture of the building”. Christian Scientists reject the icons and conventions of other Christian sects, but with a name like the First Church of Christ Scientist, Athfield made the imaginative leap to King Solomon’s First Temple. The Judaic texts describing two columns topped with lily-work was the Biblical inspiration for the columns that stood outside this new first temple. Several more supported the structure inside, and most were dressed in Porteous’ petals, each deformed while still soft, to wrap the intersection of column and ceiling, kissing the surfaces gently like real vegetal life.

The First Church of Christ Scientist, during its demolition (Images: Simon Devitt)

As in the Biblical description of the Temple of Solomon, in the south-east corner of the inner court there was a pool. Behind this pool was what should be the First Church’s most famous craft artwork: Doreen Blumhardt’s weeping wall pressed from the rocks at Ōwhiro Bay on Wellington’s south coast. A job she described as laborious and heavy, Blumhardt, assisted by Jenny Wrightson, rolled about 300 backing tiles onto which heavily embossed impressions from the rocks were mounted. Once you know what you are looking at, the rock texture returns to something familiar, but it is of course reversed – what was a crack in the surface of a rock now juts outward, and the reversal gives it the feel of an alien skin, organic rather than mineral. Set into the rock impressions are small rectangles, glistening with a gem-like green, which, along with the precision of the tiled grid, gives us a way out of the formless, chaotic texture. In one work ceramic craft becomes sculpture and then painting. Resisting close reading in all its excess, the work then reveals itself in moments of precise detail.

Human history is discovered through the recovery of ceramic remainders – the oldest have been dated to 14,000 BCE. In archaeological sites across the Middle East and Mediterranean, small sherds of pottery have been pieced together to tell us stories of ourselves. Contemporary archaeologists working in Palestine periodically uncover pottery from the era of the First Temple (800-400BCE). Some of these inscriptions reference the familiar characters of the biblical Deuteronic Histories, and I find it uncanny that historical fact could have persisted across the many cultures, languages and times that these ancient narratives have travelled. That a story about a structure built roughly 2800 years ago inspired the Athfield design of the First Church of Christ Scientist is also a little wondrous. Though it was not perhaps the original text that held interest for Athfield, but the exegetical remakings that percolate through architectural history, from the building of the Second Temple (c. 200 BCE) to Rua Kēnana’s Temple Hīona at Maungapohatu in 1908.

The roof of the First Church of Christ Scientist, with its ‘stained glass eye’ (Image: Athfield’s)

A quintessentially Post-Modern design, Athfield did not limit the building to a single narrative. Its signs were not so easily read. Mitchell listed the references: “Tudor church doors”, a “stainless steel and glass reinterpretation of the Colonial verandah, a lolloping, soft white roof that is domed like a head, with a stained-glass eye”, “the lectern and the seating behind it are styled a little like a FJ Holden”, and windows shuttered with “Colonial louvres”. Often that “white head” was likened to that of a whale. In the story of Jonah and the Whale, Jonah, for all his misdeeds, was saved by God but left to sit and pray in the whale’s belly for three days before being thrown up ashore. Unusually for a religious space, the First Church presented a glass wall to the busy street outside. Beneath the sculptural, whale-head roof, the space of congregation was open to interested viewers, the curious and those in need.

In contrast to Mitchell’s vintage Holden automobile, in the space of the lectern I saw a lilypond. Set at an angle to the street, above this area a beam supported an internal gutter detailed in glass, which allowed a rippling pattern of light to filter from above. Around the lectern and supporting the overhead beam, were more of those columns. As they split and wavered upward, they no longer seemed to support the roof so much as strive toward the light like the graceful stems of waterlilies, with the hall itself becoming some kind of submerged lake.

Rarely a critic to be entirely positive, Mitchell suggested that First Church was full of inconsistencies but that in these “the sublime innocence of [Athfield’s] imagination” was on display for all the challenge and delight that this would invoke. But the Church was not just the work of one man. Rather, like all building and architecture of this quality, it was a process of collective imagining. Made by Porteous to the design of Clare Athfield, the petal on my palm is a fragment of this process. With the demolition of the First Church the fragment has floated free and the collectivity of the building has been destroyed. In the past the petal might have been added to the foundations of whatever came next, becoming part of the ground upon which we build. But now, instead, the ground has been scrapped clean.