Wiri Donna’s perfect weekend playlist.
Wiri Donna’s perfect weekend playlist.

Pop CultureNovember 2, 2024

‘So subtle, yet so chaotic’: Wiri Donna’s perfect weekend playlist

Wiri Donna’s perfect weekend playlist.
Wiri Donna’s perfect weekend playlist.

Wellington’s Wiri Donna shares her perfect weekend playlist.

Bianca Bailey is the lead singer, guitarist and songwriter behind the chamber-pop project Wiri Donna, which recently released its second EP, In My Chambers. “I’m feeling a little vulnerable about it, almost like I’m about to out myself as an angry person. I hope everyone knows these songs exist so that I don’t have to be angry,” Bailey says of the record. “I find a lot of joy in music that’s focused around conversations you’d never have in real life so although they might be a little darker, heavier and hold a lot of rage, I hope that people find connection in this record’s brutal honesty.”

The record has been in the world for a week now, and in mid-November Wiri Donna will tour the EP for the first time through Christchurch, Dunedin, Napier, Hamilton, Auckland and Wellington. “It’s the live shows where I feel like everything comes full circle, people get to connect to the music on a new level and my band is a joy to play with,” she says. And with so much going on, Bailey says she’s usually a “quiet time, bath or go to the gym” kind-of person when she needs her downtime, but lately her solace has been in playing the new Call of Duty: Black Ops Zombies. “I am leaning into the chaos and I am here for it.”

She says the perfect scenario to enjoy her music is “preferably in an environment where you can let out some sort of cathartic scream, so maybe not for public listening unless you have headphones, or really loud in the car. If you can stomach a walk up to the top of Mt Vic, I’d say at the top of a mountain feels like the right kind of place.”

Bailey shares her ten “cathartic songs for when you need to climb that mountain” and find perfection by “yelling into the wind”.

Elliott Dawson – ‘Quarter Life’ 

I don’t know how much explanation you needed for this one beyond the fact I turned 25 this year. 

The Last Dinner Party – ‘Nothing Matters’

One of the results of turning 25 is being faced with the realisation that ultimately … nothing matters. Funnily enough when I listen to this song I somehow feel like everything matters.

Fontaines D.C. – ‘Starbuster’

As far as songs that are inherently angry but bring you a whole lot of joy go, this is top tier. “I’m gon’ hit your business if it’s momentary blissness” has got to be one of my favourite lines right now. 

Lola Young – ‘Conceited’

Listening to this song is a great alternative for punching someone in the face, and to be completely clear it is my advised alternative.

Vera Ellen – ‘Imposter’

Yeah … me too Vera, me too.

Nemahsis – ‘Stick of Gum’

This is another one of those songs that sonically it’s so beautiful and joyful, but the lyrics are chilling and dark: “You could plead guilty and I will do the time”.

Mystery Waitress – ‘Nightbug’

This is another “yeah, me too” moment. I consider myself lucky if I’ve only managed to make the same mistake twice – my mistake repetition rate is a lot higher than Tessa’s [from Mystery Waitress], but the sentiment is still there.

Dry Cleaning – ‘Don’t Press Me’

So subtle, yet so chaotic.

Black Country, New Road – ‘Sunglasses’

This is another one of those brooding slow bangers, it lets you stew for such a long time before exploding into chaos, and I never knew yelling “leave my Daddy’s job out of this” would hit so hard, but alas it does. The sense of relief I feel after a good ‘Sunglasses’ listening session is next to none.

Phoebe Bridgers – ‘I Know The End’

I think this is an excellent place to end, specifically because Phoebe ends this song by yelling into the wind. I’ve been deeply connected to this song since the second I first heard it.

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Photo: The Spinoff
Photo: The Spinoff

Pop CultureNovember 1, 2024

This new docuseries shows us another world of learning

Photo: The Spinoff
Photo: The Spinoff

Episode four of Home Education follows Kensey and her mum Alesha as they navigate a new journey of learning at home.

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As the wind blows through the poplar trees and the sun begins to lower, a young girl and her mother are busy in the garden. They’re creating a magical piece of art, a hanging sculpture that sways in the breeze and captures the golden rays of the late afternoon sun. The girl – Kensey – weaves in lavender, thyme and roses, freshly cut from the garden, as she and her mother Alesha talk about Tāwhirimātea, Māori god of the weather. “Remember, he blows things away because he gets mad,” Kensey tells her mother, as they carefully place the flowers onto their string work of art.

This is the opening scene from the latest episode of The Spinoff’s short documentary series Home Education, which follows six different whānau around Aotearoa who have embraced learning at home. Made by filmmakers Chris Pryor and Miriam Smith (The Ground We Won), each 15 minute episode introduces us to a new family as they educate their children outside of the traditional classroom. While each family has their own approach to learning in a variety of settings – including a house bus and a dahlia farm – they are all among the 10,000 New Zealanders who educate at home each year.

Alesha and Kensey live in Cromwell, and Alesha reveals that they chose to home educate Kensey when she began to fall behind in class after experiencing illness. Having only seen home education before on an episode of Country Calendar, Alesha feels like their learning journey is just beginning. She’s at a very different stage to Jen, who features in episode one of the series, and has been home educating for several years. We watch Jen’s daughters learn on the family dahlia farm, where they tend the flowers and serve high teas to customers, with every aspect of farm life linked back to their learning.

In episode two, we meet Auckland mother Rachel, who decided to home educate her son Felix after he had trouble fitting in at school. She’d never considered home education before, and later watches Felix flourish in a local forest school, surrounded by nature. Episode three follows the Fairul Izud family, as accountant Irma teaches her two sons at home, one of whom is a promising ballet dancer. They’ve found that learning at home offers a freedom that they didn’t experience in traditional schooling. “With home education, you learn to be your whole self. You don’t have to hide anything,” Irma says.

Each of these families has their own individual approach to home education – some follow Unschooling style, others are influenced by Steiner and Montessori philosophies – but there are similarities that run through the series. Each whānau values spending time together, and throughout the quiet, observational docuseries we see several heartwarming moments between parent and child, whether they’re making something in the garden, reading on the couch, or swimming in the creek.

Kensey and Alesha (Photo: The Spinoff)

There’s also an awareness of the sacrifices that it takes to home educate. In the first four episodes, it’s the mothers who give up their careers to home educate their children, and they speak of the challenges that arise from being with your child 24 hours a day, seven days a week. There’s also the juggling of social expectations about home education, which the families counter by regularly meeting up other home education families, or signing up to group sports and activities. Rachel also knows that stepping outside the traditional educational system comes with its own risks. “It’s a huge gamble,” she says. “What if it doesn’t work?”

What shines through in each episode of Home Education is the love each parent has for their child, and their dedication to doing what works best for their whānau. The series’ gentle, fly-on-the-wall approach gives an insight into an unseen aspect of New Zealand education, with every family in Home Education driven by a desire to help their children thrive. As Kensey’s garden sculpture blows in the Cromwell breeze, her mother Alesha reminds us of what’s important. “Everything we do is out of love for our daughter.”

Watch Home Education here – new episodes out Tuesdays.