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Demonstrators block traffic at the San Francisco Airport international arrival terminal as they protest against the Muslim immigration ban on January 28, 2017. President Donald Trump signed an executive order on Friday that suspends entry of all refugees for 120 days, indefinitely suspends the entries of all Syrian refugees, as well as barring entries from seven predominantly Muslim countries from entering for 90 days. (Photo by Stephen Lam/Getty Images)
Demonstrators block traffic at the San Francisco Airport international arrival terminal as they protest against the Muslim immigration ban on January 28, 2017. President Donald Trump signed an executive order on Friday that suspends entry of all refugees for 120 days, indefinitely suspends the entries of all Syrian refugees, as well as barring entries from seven predominantly Muslim countries from entering for 90 days. (Photo by Stephen Lam/Getty Images)

SocietyJanuary 29, 2017

Trump’s refugee ban is a moral outrage that shames America. When will PM Bill English say so?

Demonstrators block traffic at the San Francisco Airport international arrival terminal as they protest against the Muslim immigration ban on January 28, 2017. President Donald Trump signed an executive order on Friday that suspends entry of all refugees for 120 days, indefinitely suspends the entries of all Syrian refugees, as well as barring entries from seven predominantly Muslim countries from entering for 90 days. (Photo by Stephen Lam/Getty Images)
Demonstrators block traffic at the San Francisco Airport international arrival terminal as they protest against the Muslim immigration ban on January 28, 2017. President Donald Trump signed an executive order on Friday that suspends entry of all refugees for 120 days, indefinitely suspends the entries of all Syrian refugees, as well as barring entries from seven predominantly Muslim countries from entering for 90 days. (Photo by Stephen Lam/Getty Images)

The US President’s executive order banning all immigration from seven predominantly Muslim countries has drawn global condemnation. Now, more than ever, it’s time for New Zealand to step up and do what’s right for refugees, writes Murdoch Stephens.

When President Donald Trump banned a tweet from a government department that mentioned carbon dioxide, hinting at climate change, unknown employees set up a parallel account and kept on tweeting.

When Trump announced he’d cut funding to any family planning services that even mentioned abortion, the Netherlands stepped up to create a fund to plug the gap.

Now that he has instituted a ban on refugees from some of the countries with the greatest need for resettlement (update: on Sunday afternoon NZ time, a federal court issued an emergency order halting deportations under the ban), it is up to every country to defend the principle that human rights apply to all. Indeed, human rights only make sense as a universal concept if they are applied to those people most at risk.

France and Germany have already stepped up and denounced Trump’s refugee policies.

But where is New Zealand’s Prime Minister Bill English?

One can imagine his strategists talking through their response to Trump’s fear mongering. Prudence would have been the course charted before this week, with English hoping not to be drawn into commenting on the fairness, legality or even morality of Trump’s blitzkrieg. But how can English stay silent now?

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As Prime Minister Justin Trudeau has stepped up to say Canada would take refugees rejected by the US, so should New Zealand. We should do our bit by immediately increasing our quota to 1500 places and offer those places to the most vulnerable.

Offering safety to 1500 people –­ around 400 families per year – would not make us a world leader. Indeed, even Australia, hardly the world’s most humane country when it comes to refugee rights, would still be doing twice as much as us – but at least that increase would mean we’d be moving in the right direction.

Earlier this week English rejected a call to increase the quota by repeating the homilies of John Key about wanting to do a good job before expanding the numbers. If English had ever spoken to people in the sector he’d note their overwhelming support for a significant increase in our refugee quota.

In listening to English one hears not a hint of New Zealand’s terrible world standing – ranking at 96th in the world at hosting refugees per capita. Instead he avoids comparisons to any other country or how much we did in the past. He can take that tack when New Zealand journalists are asking him, but not when foreign leaders bring it up, as they have been more and more regularly, first with Key, then with English.

It’s time for English’s mettle to be tested. Will he be neutral in a situation of injustice, which Desmond Tutu rightly said means that a person has sided with the oppressors? Or will he take the chance to stand on the side of those most in need?

New Zealand’s own refugee restrictions

Trump’s flagrant banning of refugees from seven Muslim majority countries, as well as the suspension of the entire refugee programme for four months, has brought me back to thinking about New Zealand’s own selection criteria.

I’ve been running the Doing Our Bit campaign to double the refugee quota for the last few years and in that time I’ve become acutely aware of how New Zealand is also, in a much more subtle manner, rejecting refugees from the Middle East and Africa. I wrote about it in 2014 and 2015, but the issue never really got picked up.

New Zealand has our own softer version of the refugee ban. It is neither bombastic or explicitly based on religion, but the consequences are the same: we’ve had a drastic reduction in refugees arriving to New Zealand from Muslim countries.

In 2009, as part of a pivot to the Pacific, the incoming Foreign Affairs Minister Murray McCully refocused our refugee quota on the Asia-Pacific region (mostly refugees from Burma, Bhutan and Afghanistan), dramatically reducing the numbers of refugees from Africa. Where we used to accept roughly a third from Africa, a third from the Middle East and a third from Asia-Pacific, we have been taking two-thirds from Asia-Pacific, about 20% from the Americas and, roughly, the remaining as family linked cases from the Middle East (10%) and Africa (3%). Full statistics for the last decade can be found on the Immigration New Zealand website, while MFAT’s deliberations are available online too.

Why have we done this? The reasons are three-fold: (a) cost: it is cheaper to fly refugees here from the Asia-Pacific regions; (b) assisting with regional solutions ie. the movement of people from South East Asia to Australia by boat; (c) “broad security concerns” with most of the details on this section redacted under s(6)a of the Official Information Act.

The most obvious exceptions to this restriction of African and Middle Eastern refugees to direct family members only were the emergency intakes of Syrian refugees – first with two annual intakes of 50 Syrians within the quota, then the larger intake of 750 people, 600 in addition to the quota, in September 2015.

It’s also worth noting that the regions referred to are not the countries refugees originated in, but the countries where they are registered with the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees: that means that a recent Palestinian family, who had made their way to Thailand, were resettled as part of the Asia-Pacific intake.

Demonstrators block traffic at the San Francisco Airport international arrival terminal as they protest against the Muslim immigration ban on January 28, 2017. President Donald Trump signed an executive order on Friday that suspends entry of all refugees for 120 days, indefinitely suspends the entries of all Syrian refugees, as well as barring entries from seven predominantly Muslim countries from entering for 90 days. (Photo by Stephen Lam/Getty Images)
Demonstrators block traffic at the San Francisco Airport international arrival terminal as they protest against the Muslim immigration ban on January 28, 2017. President Donald Trump signed an executive order on Friday that suspends entry of all refugees for 120 days, indefinitely suspends the entries of all Syrian refugees, as well as barring entries from seven predominantly Muslim countries from entering for 90 days. (Photo by Stephen Lam/Getty Images)

As is so often the case, New Zealanders who are rightly aghast at the actions of a foreign power can find plenty to be upset about in our own government’s behaviour. If we’re looking to stand up to the fear of Trump’s first week then a renewed commitment to protecting some of those forsaken by Trump – in solidarity with many other countries – is the very least we can do.

How you can help

Double The Quota

New Zealand’s refugee intake is an international shame, garnering criticism both from international leaders and internally. The tiny 2016 increase was described by the Dominion Post as “callous” and by the NZ Herald as “pathetic”.

The pressure group I run, Doing Our Bit, will be campaigning during the 2017 election to make this international human rights issue central to the political agenda. It already has support from Labour, the Green Party, United Future and The Opportunities Party.

To support our work, follow us on Facebook and learn more and sign up to our email list at doingourbit.co.nz.

Volunteering with new refugee families

The NZ Red Cross runs New Zealand’s refugee resettlement programme. If you’d like to help, your options include everything from donating quality used goods, to volunteering with new families, to linking refugees to employment opportunities. Learn more at redcross.org.nz.

There are also more than a dozen other organisations around New Zealand’s six (soon to be seven) refugee locations offering such vital services as helping former refugees learn to drive and sponsoring family members for relocation. Consider donating your time and skills to those organisations as well. A comprehensive list is at the Red Cross website here.

Murdoch Stephens is the founder of the Doing Our Bit campaign to double New Zealand’s refugee quota.


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SocietyJanuary 29, 2017

Hello Caller: Help! I’m scared of my sexual fantasies

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In her final column for The Spinoff, in-house therapist Ms X answers the question: when do disturbing sexual fantasies become a cause for concern?

Dear Ms X

I’m 26 and have a question about fantasies. I really get off on the idea of being borderline assaulted, but know that I would definitely NEVER want this to happen in real life.

I’m psychologically strong and healthy and have what I consider to be a healthy sex life featuring plenty of other kinks that I’m totally comfortable talking about and acting upon. This fantasy though… it’s something I keep to myself — mostly out of respect for partners that may have been assaulted in the past, but also because it seems so taboo and fucked up.

What do you think’s going on here?

Ms Damsel in Fantasy Distress

Hello Caller.

Good question. You get a gold star for this one. Look, where would we be without sexual fantasies? It’s like the cheapest fun you can have alone.

There’s a lot of super dry material in psychology papers that talks abut the importance of fantasies in our lives and accepting, and if necessary analysing and questioning, your own fantasies as they pop up.

I can understand that for a young woman who probably feels reasonably right on politically, socially, and emotionally, this could feel a bit like “wtf is going on in my subconscious and where has this interest emerged from?”

Don’t rush to be horrified or ashamed about it ok? You have (so far ) quite reasonably kept it to yourself because, as you say, you’ve been in intimate relationships with people who have experienced assault and you don’t want to hurt or trigger them in any way. That is a good solid plan.

Not all of our fantasies need to be realised. They can be kept to ourselves and just be something that is for personal use, so to speak. Like a great vibrator for your mind. Understandably you are curious about why you have this particular fantasy and maybe it’s such a powerful one because it’s so very transgressive. Sometimes the things that are precisely the opposite of what we think we want or how we generally are can become erotic to us.

It could be interesting for you to think about whether the power imbalance is a turn on in this fantasy. Are you normally very in control of most of your life?

That’s a very basic attempt at interpretation but just push up against that idea and see if it makes sense. I quite like the Wikipedia entry of sexual fantasies. It has classy pictures too!

The only real issue for you is if you would like to act out this fantasy with a partner. That will take some thoughtful and careful negotiation. That kind of conversation isn’t impossible but you need some time and guidelines.

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Have a read of this article, from the New York Times no less, about a woman who told her fiancé about her long term spanking fetish. There’s lots of information available to people who do want to safely negotiate and introduce some kink into their life. We live in a time where you can actually find people who share the same interests if you don’t have a partner who’s into it.

You’re young and smart enough to discreetly google these things away from a work computer but there’s some very good reading to be found on how to safely negotiate something like what you describe, if you get that far.

I know that I haven’t told you why you have this particular fantasy and that’s because fantasies can be weird and mercurial and it’s sort of impossible to work out the origins via a letter. Overall I believe we shouldn’t always strive to understand fantasies fully because then they lose their potency. Especially if they’re not harming anyone (and that includes you).

Which is precisely why I won’t be telling you about the one I have about Bruce Springsteen dusting my filthy side board.

Who’s the boss now Bruce?

We’re really sad to report that this is Ms. X’s final column for The Spinoff; look for her new column on Stuff.co.nz (yes, our Ms X is moving up to the big leagues!) in the coming weeks.

Have a problem and need help now?

Lifeline 0800 543 354

Youthline 0800 376 633

OUTline (LGBT helpline) 0800 688 5463

More helplines can be found at the Mental Health Foundation’s directory. For a list of Māori mental health services, click here.


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